Posting the details for the wedding for my LS, so everyone can read and I don't have to forward the mail to everyone.
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Wedding Ceremony Procedures
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Etiquette
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A wedding is a sacred event and should be observed with the utmost respect. Thus, during our ceremonies, it is important for all involved to conduct themselves in the appropriate manner.
If the behavior of the participants and/or guests is deemed improper or disruptive, we reserve the right to cancel the ceremony. Please help us to create a joyous and memorable occasion for the bride and groom by ensuring that everyone obeys this simple etiquette:
- Do not be late
- Do not move around needlessly during the
ceremony.
- Do not bring monsters to the wedding site, and
then release them.
- Do not come to the wedding site on your own.
Please stay in the designated waiting area.
- Do not use /shout for ANY reason while waiting.
- Refrain from casting spells, synthesizing, or
using unnecessary items until the ceremony is
over.
- Refrain from unnecessary chatting once the
ceremony begins, including excessive emotes.
- Do not engage in battle.
- Maintain a reasonable standard of decency
during the ceremony.
- Do not engage in any other activities that
might disrupt the ceremony.
- Do not send unnecessary /tells to the groom or bride.
Questions should be directed to the chaperone.
- Do not invite more guests than your selected location allows for.
The attendance limit is based on the site, and limits are in place to avoid latency.
It is the responsibility of the chaperones to inform all attendees of the above etiquette, but they are free to do so in their own words, if they wish.
It may be a good idea to recruit helpers and ushers who can direct and caution the attendees upon arrival, or shortly before the ceremony begins.
Please make sure your ushers do not block other players (non-guests) that need to enter the wedding site to speak to quest NPCs.
Attire and Appearances
In regards to attire, helmets, masks, visors, faceguards and heavy head items should not be worn. Hats, cloaks, circlets, eyeglasses and the like are acceptable. Female guests should not wear opaline, ceremonial, or wedding feet, leg or body items out of respect for the bride.
If your wedding is indoors (Inside the Count's Manor or Jeuno, or a special location like Hall of the Gods), please ask guests to remove their hats.
It is recommended that one dress in a manner befitting a sacred occasion. This request extends not only to the bride, groom, and chaperone, but to all those who plan to attend the ceremony. The bride, groom, and chaperone should discuss this matter beforehand in order to establish a general guideline, which in turn should be passed on to all attendees. However, the only OFFICIAL rules for attire are the previously mentioned ones regarding heavy headgear and opaline/ceremonial/wedding gear.
Weapons
We ask that the bride, groom, and chaperone leave their weapons equipped during the ceremony. The wedding vows are based on weapon types. Guests are welcome to wear their weapons. Shields are optional.
Arrangements
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Chateau d'Oraguille
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Groom, bride and chaperone should meet by the fountain in the middle of Chateau d'Oraguille near (H-8)
Guests MUST meet and wait in the Great Hall near the NPC Halver
This location allows for up to 18 attendees including the groom, bride and chaperone
Fees are 30,000g plus an additional 50,000g if the bridal set is desired.
The bride, groom, and chaperone must proceed directly to the wedding site, where they will be asked to confirm some information and preferences. At this time, the chaperone must pay all wedding fees to the Temple Knight when requested. Then, the chaperone will be given the confetti crackers, which must be distributed to the guests after practice. The wedding rings are EX items, and will be placed directly in to inventories of the groom and bride. They should not be equipped until the appropriate time in the ceremony. The bride's wedding dress set, if requested, will be placed in her inventory since it is also EX. She may not equip the items until practice is complete.
After all of your preferences have been confirmed, the Wedding Master will describe the procession for the bride, groom, and chaperone. The Wedding Master will make sure the instructions are clear, and will ask the bride, groom, and chaperone to try it on cue. On completion, the Wedding Master will review some information about the ending for the chaperone. The chaperone will then be dispatched to the guests so that they can review the rules and distribute the crackers. The Wedding Master will review the script with the groom and the bride during this time, and will contact the chaperone when the review has been completed. The chaperone will be instructed to lead the guests to the seating areas (in walk mode) at this point.
PLEASE NOTE: On the wedding day, the three of you must be at the wedding site and ready to meet 60 minutes before the scheduled wedding start time. This means that you should all be able to see /say chat, and ALL early guests must be at the waiting area. The Wedding Master is on an extremely tight schedule and cannot wait for more than 10 minutes if you are late. If the three of you are not at the wedding site and ready to meet by 10 after the hour (for example, 4:10PM if the meeting is scheduled for 4:00PM), the wedding will be cancelled, without exception. You are encouraged to recruit some of your guests to serve as ushers to help keep the guests at the waiting area.
* Both the bride and groom must keep at least one inventory space open to hold the wedding ring. The chaperone must reserve one inventory space to hold the crackers.
* If a bridal set was requested in the application, the bride will need 4 additional empty inventory spaces to hold the entire set. If the set was not requested on the application, but you'd like it anyway, please bring the 50,000g fee to the ceremony, and inform the WM when your preferences are confirmed. If the Bride has Opaline or Ceremonial gear, she MUST NOT equip these items until the guests are seated.